utteranonymity:

Fun little trick I learned in therapy: validation. When someone is upset, don’t try to fix the problem, point out the cause, or tell them it could be worse. Just validate their emotions. Be like, ‘shit yeah man, that sucks. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m here for you.’ That’s literally all you have to do to make them feel better. Thank you and goodnight.

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guroshitsuji:

don’t shit on people for having self confidence and being happy with their appearance like how bitter are you

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gossipinq:

if a friend does something wrong, dont forget the things they did right

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